Is it fate ?

Why is it that we can be so happy one minute, then with a drop of a hat we can feel like our whole life is crashing? Is it because we so caught up in the moment an too busy reminiscing the past

and then when we do have to sit back and relax we start to relive the past or invent the future.

First you think of the best times of your life an the you start to how amazing your future will be but then you reality strikes an now you thinking about all the bad. You remember all the things you said were going to happen but haven't because somewhere along the line, life has thrown you down and created obstacles that seem like a mission impossible. Then you start to think about all the things you want to achieve but are stuck wondering how it will be possible because every time you finally pick yourself up and something good happens a new obstacle will be thrown at you. So why is life so hard? Why is life so unfair? Why can't we just be truly happy?

I'll tell you why. It's all to do with fate. Now i know this sounds stupid and it's just another way of saying that everything happens for a reason but i truly believe it does. After being hurt time after time, I am starting to pick myself up an move on a whole lot faster than before and I have come to the conclusion that life is just one big game, at first you won't always be the winner and it will hurt I know, but by the end you will show everyone who is boss. Instead of being the player you will become the coach. There is no more time spent dwelling in the past or worrying about the future, you got to live in the present and make your life a legacy. Make every moment count both good and bad.

Wait!! Why would you want to make the bad moment's count? Why would you want to embrace them? How could you ever turn bad into good? I know! Its all a process of healing and once you have healed you will look back on these moments when you are facing a new hardship in life and feel like your life is crashing, you will realize that you have gone through this pain so many times before you can do it again! You are strong and that is something everyone will admire you for and you will become a hero just for embracing the bad and making it become good because at the of the day why spend time reminiscing the bad when you could be embracing the past? Every seconds you spend upset is a minute of your life that you will never get back.

It's your time to shine baby. You got this, I know you do ;) xx